Tuesday, November 10, 2015

Coddled College Students, Privilege, etc.

Several years ago my new roommate brought over a friend on a Friday evening and a group of us got into a casual discussion of Obamacare. I was skeptical and didn't think the new bill would work. I guess the jury is still out, but with the rate increases coming this next year, the super high deductibles, and various unions, etc lobbying for aspects of the bill to be overturned, I think there's a pretty good chance I'll turn out to be right.

In any case, this friend of my roommate was young and during the argument got completely hysterical, cried, and called me privileged. Well, how can I respond?

Afterwards, I apologized to my roommate for letting the argument escalate. I don't like making people cry, and especially in my own house. But I thought back to that incident just now in the wake of the hysterical Yale student losing it on her dorm master and in the wake of the University of Missouri stuff and am changing my opinion.

I was right and she was wrong.

I was expressing an opinion and taking a reasoned, passioned position based upon logic and understanding of the world. She hijacked the conversation and made it about her unhinged emotions. And I think this was the first time I noticed a change from my generation to whatever we call this group that Lena Dunham and her ilk belong to. My first impression was that perhaps I took things too far, but now I realize something is seriously wrong with these kids.

They don't believe in free speech. They cannot tolerate disagreement. They meltdown when their immature an ignorant "beliefs" are questioned. They have no understanding of war, history, economics, or basic elements of how the world functions. Their argument always goes to the same thing: privilege. Anyone who disagrees with their dumbshit positions is simply arguing from a position of privilege and therefore incapable of being right or even have a point.

I'm calling bullshit because the fact is, all of us are privileged. THEY are privileged.

This guy who goes on a hunger strike for the injustices at U. of Missouri...are we going to take this seriously? What person in their right mind thinks college is an unsafe place for minority students? If U. of Missouri was so bad, aren't there literally hundreds of other schools he could attend? If it were so terrible, why is he there? Is there no where in America safe for students of color? Why do all those students attend this racist school in the first place? None of it makes any sense.

7 comments:

Steph! said...

Hi Greg! Ha, I knew youd have something to say about this! I'm in total agreement that there seems to be a difference in how the younger kids handle conflict these days. I'm all for a more empathetic society, but we can't force others to feel/think the way we do just because it would make us more comfortable, and letting your emotions lead over logic & reason is rarely a good idea. I have struggled to glean all the details about what's been happening at Mizzou, but there hasn't been a clear picture yet because info's been released in dribs and drabs, and unfortunately the poorest choices are getting the most ink. Columbia, MO used to be in my neck of the woods many years ago. I have personal experience with that campus and memories of the city, so I'm not surprised racist things happen there. IIRC, the fact that the University remained silent after each of these alleged incidents is why that student went on hunger strike. I think the thing that's most upsetting and difficult to understand (besides the continued existence of racist people) is the notion that these two universities (Mizzou & Yale) were expected to create a so-called "safe space" for its students and pretty much dictate the rules on interpersonal interactions beyond those involving criminal activity (rape, hate crimes, assault & battery, etc). I don't believe that the University in theory should *have* to do anything about these interactions... it's a place for education, not an extension of the home where Mommy and Daddy (presumably) keep you safe from uncomfortable situations. However, it should *want* to publicly encourage dialogue, if not to shape young minds and strengthen their communication skills beyond text messages, then to give these students and their families the proper ROI that they've come to expect. What do you think about that?

Steph! said...

Oh! Here's what happened to start off Jordan Butler's hunger strike: http://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/56402cc8e4b0307f2cadea10

Greg said...

It seems to me on the list of challenges facing this country and the world, the "safety" of college campuses would fall in the lower 10%. I think these protesters are mistaking human idiocy for systemic racism. There will be people who yell the n-word from pick up trucks. There are drunken dumbshits everywhere. What makes ZERO sense is punishing those in power who have nothing to do with the existence of dumbshits. I guess what it boils down to is this: I honestly don't think there is much systemic racism in America today. I just don't see it. And all the stories about "racism" we read never are clearly - to my mind - anyway about race. They are tragedies, mistakes, and the result of human failure.

And, in a irony to bring it back to the blog post, I think the hunger strike guy was also pissed about losing his health insurance which is the result of the University abiding by Obamacare regulations.

Steph! said...

How do YOU define systemic racism?

Greg said...

examples of systemic racism - laws designed to deny people their political rights, like in the jim crow south. laws that don't allow non-muslims to own property like in saudi arabia. a corporate policy that states a certain races cannot be hired for a job. a college that won't allow people of a certain race to attend. basically, when a system is designed to oppress a race or races...when it is a feature rather than a bug (to put it in computer terms).

Greg said...

oh, and the university of missouri is not an institution of systemic oppression or at least has not been demonstrated as much to this layperson. and frankly, knowing how colleges are bastions of liberal values, the whole idea seems pretty absurd.

Steph! said...

"[E]xamples of systemic racism - laws designed to deny people their political rights, like in the jim crow south. laws that don't allow non-muslims to own property like in saudi arabia. a corporate policy that states a certain races cannot be hired for a job. a college that won't allow people of a certain race to attend. basically, when a system is designed to oppress a race or races...when it is a feature rather than a bug (to put it in computer terms)."

Greg, you are close but not quite on the mark. It's a feature AND a bug.

http://www.benjerry.com/whats-new/systemic-racism-is-real

https://www.raceforward.org/videos/systemic-racism

http://www.usnews.com/news/blogs/at-the-edge/2015/05/06/institutional-racism-is-our-way-of-life

https://www.netflix.com/title/80091741