Agreed

Anne Hathaway is not your friend.

I recognize that there is an entire publicity industry designed to get us to "like" people whom we essentially pay to see work. 

And perhaps it's fair to judge whether or not that industry has been effective in making you think you know Hathaway in a way that you probably do not. But the fact remains that you don't really know any of these people. Anne Hathaway is an actor. This is not a synonym for "Homecoming Queen" nor "special friend." She does her job better than most. That should be enough.

Indeed, we are so hard on people these days, it's a wonder anyone wants to be in the public eye.